Journaling and Writing for Anxiety

I’m not hungry when I’m anxious. How can I still eat?

It’s completely normal to lose your appetite when you’re feeling stressed or anxious. Forcing a big meal can feel impossible. Instead, think small and easy. Try a handful of nuts, a container of yogurt, a piece of fruit, or a smoothie. These are less overwhelming than a full plate of food. Even just a few bites are better than nothing. The goal is to get a little bit of fuel into your system to help settle your stomach and give your brain the energy it needs to start calming down.

What does “catastrophizing” mean, and what does it look like?

Catastrophizing is when your mind jumps to the worst-case scenario right away. It’s like assuming you’ll fail a test because you missed one question, or thinking a friend is angry with you forever because they didn’t text back. You’re blowing things way out of proportion. It feels like you’re preparing for disaster, but you’re just making yourself worry more. The first step to stopping it is to notice when you’re making a small problem into a huge catastrophe in your mind.

What are the best food sources of probiotics?

You don’t always need a pill to get probiotics; you can find them in delicious foods! Some of the best sources are yogurt with “live and active cultures,“ kefir (a tangy drinkable yogurt), and fermented foods like sauerkraut and kimchi. Other good options include kombucha (a fizzy fermented tea) and miso (a paste used in soups). When shopping, look for words like “live cultures” or “fermented” on the label. Adding a serving of these foods to your diet each day is a simple way to feed your gut the good guys.

How can I tell when my thoughts are unbalanced or too negative?

You can spot an unbalanced thought by the way it makes you feel. If a thought makes you feel instantly overwhelmed, terrible about yourself, or sure that something will go wrong, it’s probably unbalanced. These thoughts often use extreme words like “always,“ “never,“ or “disaster.“ For example, “I always mess up” or “This presentation will be a complete disaster.“ Pay attention to that sudden drop in your mood—it’s a great clue that your thoughts might be exaggerating and not telling you the whole, true story.