Nighttime Anxiety and Trouble Sleeping

Why is oatmeal considered a comfort food for stress?

Oatmeal is a classic comfort food for a good reason! It’s a complex carbohydrate, which means it helps your brain produce serotonin. Serotonin is a natural chemical in your body that makes you feel happy and calm. A warm bowl of oatmeal in the morning provides steady energy, preventing your blood sugar from spiking and crashing, which can make you feel jittery. It’s a cozy, filling choice that helps keep your mood on an even keel throughout the day.

Why is it so hard to stop negative thoughts?

Telling yourself “stop thinking that!“ doesn’t work well because your brain focuses on the very thing you’re trying to avoid—like being told not to picture a pink elephant. It’s more effective to notice the thought without fighting it. Say to yourself, “Okay, I’m having the thought that this will go badly.“ Then, gently shift your focus to what you’re doing right now, like feeling your feet on the floor or listing three things you can see. This helps the thought lose its power and float away like a cloud.

What if I get too hot under a heavy blanket?

This is a common concern, but it has an easy fix! Many weighted blankets are now made with cooling materials like bamboo or special breathable fabric. You can also look for one filled with glass beads instead of plastic, as they tend to stay cooler. Another simple trick is to use it over a top sheet and under a comforter, so you can easily adjust your layers if you start to feel warm.

What if I can’t think of a balanced thought in the moment?

If you’re too upset to think clearly, don’t force it. The first step is to calm your body down. Try taking a slow walk, splashing cold water on your face, or focusing on your breathing for a minute. Once the intense feeling has passed a little, then you can try to find a balanced thought. It’s much harder to think reasonably when you’re in a panic. Be kind to yourself—the goal is to manage the wave of anxiety first, and then work on the thoughts when you feel a bit safer and quieter.